What is CSA?
19% of the world’s children live in India (1 in 5). Within India, 42% of our total population is aged below eighteen (2011 census). India also has one of the largest number of children who have experienced sexual abuse. 53.22% i.e. over 1 in 2 children in India experience one or more forms of sexual abuse before they turn 18. Further, over 20% of children experience severe forms of sexual abuse. Out of the 53.22% children who reported being sexually abused, more than half were boys. According to NCRB data 2016, out of all the CSA cases that were reported, 95% of abusers were known and trusted people to the children i.e. from within the family or neighbours.
Sexual abuse is not just limited to physical forms that involve direct touch, but also include verbal and visual forms like sexualized talk, forceful exposure to pornography, and more. Contrary to the common perception, any act can be sexually abusive provided the intention behind it is sexual gratification of the abuser. It may or may not involve force, pain, or violence. If an adult or an older child engages in any sexual behaviour with a child to meet their sexual needs and interests, it is sexual abuse. Child sexual abuse can be categorised in two forms - contact & non-contact. Some common forms of contact abuse are:
- Touching a child's genitals or private parts for sexual purposes
- Making a child touch someone else's genitals or play sexual games
- Putting objects or body parts (like fingers, tongue or penis) inside the vagina, in the mouth or in the anus of a child for sexual purpose
- Fondling, sexualised hugging or any kind of sexualised touching
Some common forms of non-contact abuse are:
- Showing pornography to a child
- Deliberately exposing one's genitals to a child
- Photographing a child in sexual poses or nude
- Encouraging a child to watch or hear sexual acts
- Inappropriately watching a child undress or use the bathroom
- Obscene phone calls, text messages, or digital interaction
- Exhibitionism, or exposing oneself to a minor
- Masturbation in the presence of a minor or forcing the minor to masturbate
- Producing, watching, storing or sharing pornographic content of children
- Any other sexual conduct that is harmful to a child's mental, emotional, or physical welfare
Internet and child sexual abuse: The online revolution is at times compared to the industrial revolution in a way that it has restructured economic and social lives in the twenty-first century. With virtual anonymity also come unique threats for children, putting them at a higher risk of exploitation and harm. The internet has given those interested in exploiting children a new medium to network, create child sexual abusive material, share information and knowledge, as well as explore new identities under the garb of anonymity. Sexual abuse through the internet can take many forms including:
- Distributing abusive images of children.
- Blackmailing by acquiring the child's private pictures or messages or by using morphing technology.
- Sharing private content with an intention to seek revenge or harm.
- Grooming a child online for later abuse (online or offline) through the use of chat rooms, bulletin boards and online communities where the abuser befriends the child to gain trust.
- Prostituting a child for later abuse either by the perpetrator themselves or by others.
- Engaging children in cyber-sex scenarios.
- Children being sold online for live sexual abuse online – the perpetrator informs their online ‘peers’ the intentions to abuse a child on a set date and time and these ‘peers’ can watch this abuse occurring through a webcam.
Many times, sexual abuse is a combination of contact, non contact and online space. To read UNICEF report on Child Online Protection in India 2016, click here.
Perhaps due to the anxiety associated with imagining children go through the trauma of sexual abuse, many people find it best to not talk about it and hope that it never happens to their children. Some common stereotypes that further silence the conversations are:
- It happens in lower income groups.
- It doesn't happen in "good" families. Definitely not in MY family.
- My child will tell me if someone hurts them.
- This can't happen to MY child.
- It's only sexual abuse if it involves touching.
- My child is safe as they stay away from strangers.
The reality is that there is no way of knowing who may pose a threat to children around us. We know that most sexual abuse comes from trusted people. It is important to debunk the stereotypes and face the fact that children are at risk of exploitation. By doing so, adults can prepare themselves to identify threats and communicate openly with children about their safety. By opening a channel of communication with children and ensuring that they trust you to help them in any adversity, especially bodily violation, you empower them to recognise sexual threats and act in their own safety.
Is CSA different from child abuse?
Child Abuse includes physical, emotional, sexual abuse and also neglect. All forms of abuse account for maltreatment of children. Most child abuse is a combination of two or more forms. However, child sexual abuse is especially detrimental as it may interfere with the typical psycho-emotional development of children and leave long-term impact on their self-concept, health & abilities to form trusting relationships.
How childhood gets affected by sexual abuse?
Childhood sexual abuse infringes on the basic rights of children. When seduced, manipulated or coerced into some form of sexual activity, it robs children of a sense of control and choice that is central to their holistic development and wellbeing. The dynamics of being violated, being violated by someone they trust, and a loss of control over the situation can lead to traumatic implications. Being developmentally unprepared for sexual activity, the natural course of their emotional and sexual development is disrupted. Further, when abuse comes from people who are responsible for the care and safety of the child, it confuses the attachment patterns and leaves them confused. It is often also accompanied with other forms if abuse like neglect, emotional and sometimes physical abuse. Hence, most survivors of child sexual abuse report higher levels of anxiety, guilt, immunity-related health problems, issues related to identity, self-esteem, sexuality and relationship related issues in the longer term.
Why do adults sexually abuse children?
Why children may not disclose abuse?
There are many reasons children do not disclose being sexually abused, including:
- Threats of bodily harm (to the child and/or the child’s family).
- Fear of being removed from the home.
- Fear of not being believed.
- Shame or guilt.
If the abuser is someone the child or the family cares about, the child may worry about getting that person in trouble. In addition, children often believe that the sexual abuse was their own fault and may not disclose for fear of getting in trouble themselves. Very young children may not have the language skills to communicate about the abuse or may not understand that the actions of the perpetrator are abusive, particularly if the sexual abuse is made into a game. If a child discloses abuse, it is critical to stay calm, listen carefully, and NEVER blame the child.
What is Incest?
47% of Indian girls and 53% of Indian boys are sexually abused
1 in 2 indian children are sexually abused
50% of the abusers are known and trusted people
According to the pan-India National Study on Child Abuse (2007) by Ministry of Women and Child Development, which collected data from over 12447 children, 2324 young adults and 2449 stakeholders from across 13 states:
- 53.22% of all children in India experience one or more forms of sexual abuse, out of which more than half are boys.
- 21% of children were subjected to severe forms of sexual abuse. Severe forms are understood as sexual assault, making the child fondle private parts, making the child exhibit private body parts and being photographed in the nude.
- Both boys and girls experienced sexual abuse. In fact 52.94 % were boys.
- Most perpetrators of sexual abuse are people known to children. The official percentage of known persons sexually abusing children is 50%. However, it ranges anywhere between 50 - 90 % all over the world. This is what adds the most gravity to child sexual abuse a detrimental issue.
- Every 2.5 hours, a child under 16 years of age is raped. Know more.
- 54.51% children on the streets reported facing sexual abuse.
- 47.08 % children in institutional care reported facing sexual abuse. Know more.
These figures indicate the seriousness and prevalence of sexual exploitation and abuse of children in India.
The first study on CSA in India was conducted in 1998, and was conducted by RAHI (Recovery and Healing from Incest). They found that a majority (76%) of the participants reported being abused during childhood or adolescence.
In 2005, Save the Children, and, Tulir–Center for Healing and Prevention of Child Sex Abuse conducted another study among 2,211 school-going children in Chennai. About 48% and 39% of the boys and girls, respectively, reported as being sexually abused, while more than one-tenth (15%) of the participants stated as having faced severe forms of sexual abuse.
Know More on the status of children in India.
Read the full report on child abuse in India here.
Before children are sexually abused, they are often groomed by abusers.
Do you know the signs?
Special attention or gifts
Isolating the child from others
Filling needs and roles within the family
Treating the child as if he or she is older
Gradually crossing physical boundaries, even in public
Grooming is unique to child sexual abuse in a way it isn't to many other forms of abuse or sexual abuse of adults, in most case. The abuser works patiently and many times, lovingly, towards establishing an emotional relationship with the child and their family to lower the child's resistance to sexual abuse that follows later. Thus manipulating the child to get confused about when exactly they should have resisted. By the process of grooming, the abuser slowly isolates a child in order to find opportunities to abuse and decrease the possibility of being reported or discovered.
It can be thought of as a gradual, calculated process that entraps children into being a willing part of the sex abuse.
Common examples of grooming
Below are some examples of grooming behaviour:
- Pretending to be someone they are not, for example saying they are the same age online
- Controlling a child through threats, force or use of authority
- Asking the child’s permission [e.g., ‘‘I enjoyed this is it okay with you?’’]
- Desensitizing them [e.g., swimming together, showering, wrestling, and dirty jokes]
- Privileges [e.g., limited discipline, undermining non offender parent]
- Giving gifts or attention for inappropriate reasons
- Befriend them; become their confidant, the good listener, pretend concern, sharing dreams
- Attempt to convince them that they share responsibility for the abuse and that they would be punished if the abuse were discovered
- Frighten them "If you tell, Mom will kill herself. No one will believe you.’’
- Taking them on trips, outings or holidays
- Openly or pretending to accidentally expose the victim to nudity, sexual material and sexual acts
- Having inappropriate social boundaries (e.g., telling the potential victims about their own personal problems etc)
- Apologize and promise not to re-offend
Who can be a groomer?
A groomer can be just about anyone. The more chances there are for a person to get caught, the more they will groom a child and their family to reduce discovery of abuse. Most times grooming is involved when the abuser is a family member. Know more.
How does grooming work?
Grooming is a process. It begins when the predator chooses a target area. He may visit places where children are likely to go: schools, shopping malls, playgrounds, parks, and the like. He may work or volunteer at businesses that cater to children. Other predators strike up relationships with adults who have children in the home—single parent families make particularly good targets.
A predator will usually introduce secrecy at some point during the grooming process. Initially, secrecy binds the victim to the predator: "Here's some candy. But don't tell your friends because they'll be jealous, and don't tell your mother because she won't like you eating between meals." Later on, secrecy joins hands with threats: "If you tell your mother what happened, she'll hate you. It'll kill her. Or I'll kill her. Or I'll kill you." Know More.
Watch this video to learn more about the grooming process.
Short-term impact of CSA:
- Physical signs - bruises, injuries, marks
- Regressive behaviours (e.g., thumb-sucking and bed-wetting in younger children)
- Sleep disturbances
- Eating problems
- Behavior and/or performance problems at school, and unwillingness to participate in school or social activities
- Sudden and drastic behavioural change
- Development of specific fears
Long term impact
Long-term impact can be wide-ranging:
- Self-destructive behaviors such as substance abuse
- Mood disorders, especially depression
- Anxiety attacks
- Auto-immune health problems
- Sleeping disorders
- Difficulties in forming healthy adult relationships
- Anger issues (directed towards the abuser, caregiver for failing to protect them, as well as self for not being able to stop the abuse)
- Experience difficulty in trusting others
- Shame, guilt, self-blame or other feelings of inferiority
- Traumatic sexualisation which may manifest on the spectrum of hyper sexual to asexual behaviour.
- Body image issues and eating disorders.
- Children who have experienced sexual abuse often have higher rates of revictimization (later sexual assaults) than non-victims.
Long-term impact on relationship with self & others:
CSA often involves a breach of trust and feeling of exploitation. This may contribute to interpersonal difficulties and a disruption in intimate connections. Survivors of child sexual abuse have reported higher levels of relationship breakdown including separation and divorce. Further, the survivors also show lower levels of satisfaction with their existing intimate relationships.
Sexual abuse in children may affect the development of their sexual identity as well as their belief that the world is a safe place and others are trustworthy. It is this disruption that may cause lifelong insecure and disorganised attachments.
Special courts & fast-track judgement of CSA cases: